fix: stabilize me subscription sync metadata

server/db/mysql/adapter.go

@@ -3301,6 +3301,7 @@ func (a *adapter) TopicsForUser(uid t.Uid, keepDeleted bool, opts *t.QueryOpt) (
 		limit = a.maxResults
 	}
 
+	q += " ORDER BY topic ASC, deletedat IS NULL DESC, updatedat DESC, id DESC"
 	if limit > 0 {
 		q += " LIMIT ?"
 		args = append(args, limit)
@@ -3329,7 +3330,12 @@ func (a *adapter) TopicsForUser(uid t.Uid, keepDeleted bool, opts *t.QueryOpt) (
 		}
 		tname := sub.Topic
 		sub.User = uid.String()
+		if !t.ParseUserId(tname).IsZero() {
+			// Legacy self-user subscriptions are not conversation entries.
+			continue
+		}
 		tcat := t.GetTopicCat(tname)
+		peerID := ""
 
 		if tcat == t.TopicCatMe || tcat == t.TopicCatFnd {
 			// One of 'me', 'fnd' subscriptions, skip.
@@ -3341,19 +3347,27 @@ func (a *adapter) TopicsForUser(uid t.Uid, keepDeleted bool, opts *t.QueryOpt) (
 			p2pResolved[tname] = false
 			if uid1 == uid {
 				usrq = append(usrq, store.DecodeUid(uid2))
-				sub.SetWith(uid2.UserId())
+				peerID = uid2.UserId()
+				sub.SetWith(peerID)
 			} else {
 				usrq = append(usrq, store.DecodeUid(uid1))
-				sub.SetWith(uid1.UserId())
+				peerID = uid1.UserId()
+				sub.SetWith(peerID)
 			}
 		} else if tcat == t.TopicCatGrp {
 			// Maybe convert channel name to group topic name.
 			tname = t.ChnToGrp(tname)
 		}
+		if _, exists := join[tname]; exists {
+			continue
+		}
 		// No special handling needed for 'slf', 'sys' subscriptions.
 
 		topq = append(topq, tname)
 		sub.Private = common.FromJSON(sub.Private)
+		if tcat == t.TopicCatP2P {
+			sub.Private = ensureP2PPrivatePeer(sub.Private, peerID)
+		}
 		join[tname] = sub
 	}
 	if err == nil {